On the Move

Moving on – moving out – moving up. All terms hoomans use for going places. My canine adventure is a day late this week because my hoomans have been on the move. A lot of stuff has been coming and going in and out of my house. The hoomans have been busy moving the Grands into “assisted” living. The only thing not moving these days is me! 

I am not sure why some hoomans make assisted living sound like it is not a great thing. I am here to tell you – being assisted is the only way to go. My assistance includes all my meals and treats (twice a day and don’t forget the snacks – thanks). My flea meds, vet appointments, nail care, and transportation all rely upon my hoomans. Hoomans open and close doors for me and even towel off my paws after a swim in the creek. 

I am not sure why hoomans think that being independent is somehow better. These past few weeks I have had to be more independent and I got to be honest – it’s not all that great. I’ve had to entertain myself, walk myself, and most days even cuddle down in the blankets by myself. I have learned that being too independent can be lonely.

I think we’ve been conditioned to believe it’s important to do things on our own. That somehow doing things yourself is better than asking for help. The truth is, we all need to be assisted in one way or another. We need each other to socialize, share treats, show-off tricks, and get belly rubs. It not only is important for our brains but sometimes things are next to impossible to do alone. How am I supposed to rub my own belly? 

We also need to provide assistance. Helping each other feels so good! I remember one day last winter when my hooman was hiking in the snow. She dropped her glove on a steep part of the path and she could not reach it. She called me over and asked me to retrieve it for her. Naturally, I helped (and having four paws made this an easy task). She was SO GRATEFUL! She cuddled and kissed me. She told me I was good and brave. I will never forget how great it felt to feel so needed.

So friends, as we go into a new week, if you find yourself needing some extra help do not be too “independent” to ask. Let someone who loves you lift a paw on your behalf. Remember, being assisted is a two-way street. Nothing feels better than helping out a friend in need.

Bark at you next week!

Your friend,

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